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Six Things Every Disciple-Maker Should Pray For

On By Jarrett Ray FletcherIn DiscipleshipLeave a comment

How do we “make disciples?” Disciple-making is the intentional process of helping someone follow Jesus through relationships. This process includes several aspects such as teaching content, making consistent contact, and spending time in different contexts together. There are many resources available to help us in our disciple-making efforts. However, I fear that we can get so caught up in following and depending on a certain curriculum or method of discipleship that we forget to pray for those we are seeking to disciple.

If you are seeking to help someone follow Jesus and grow in their walk with God, one of the first things you should do is commit yourself to is praying for them! Here are five simple things to pray; I would encourage you to memorize these and pray them daily!

1. Spiritual Growth and Maturity in Christ

Pray that they would grow in their understanding of the gospel, deepen in their relationship with Christ, and become more like Him in character and conduct (Ephesians 4:13-15).

2. Understanding and Applying Scripture

Ask God to grant them wisdom and insight as they read His Word, helping them to understand and apply His truth as they seek to live out the gospel (Psalm 119:18; James 1:22).

3. Opportunities and Boldness in Ministry

Pray for them to have opportunities to minister to others through prayer, encouragement, and evangelism. Pray for God to grant them courage and clarity as they share the hope of Christ with others (Acts 4:29; Matthew 28:19-20).

4. Dependence on the Holy Spirit

Ask God to help them rely on the Holy Spirit for guidance, strength, and spiritual transformation, recognizing that apart from Him, they can do nothing (John 15:5; Galatians 5:16).

5. Perseverance Through Trials

Ask God to sustain them through whatever trials they may be experiencing. Pray that He will use these challenges to strengthen their faith, refine their character, and mature them in Christ (James 1:2-4; Romans 5:3-5).

6. Those They Will Disciple

Pray that they will become a disciple-maker themselves, and ask God to lead them to others they can help in their walk with Jesus (2 Timothy 2:2).

Can you imagine what someone’s life may look like if they had someone in their corner praying these things for them regularly? Let that “someone in their corner” be you!

Why Disciple-Making Must Begin with the Gospel

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Today we launched a new discipleship group on my back porch at 6:45am. In our first meeting together, we carefully explained and studied the core message of the gospel. We began with God and His character, considered man’s need because of his sin, Christ’s righteous life, sacrificial death, and victorious resurrection, and the need for responding in repentance and faith. We discussed our individual experiences hearing, believing, and living the gospel. Though it may seem basic, starting any disciple-making effort must start with the gospel. Here’s why:

1. The gospel is the entry-point into life with God.

A disciple is someone who is following Jesus. Someone who is walking with God. The gospel is the message that brings us to God. The content of the gospel- Christ’s life, death, and resurrection- is the power of God to save (Romans 1:16). By believing it, we become sons and daughters of God, and begin a new life with God. We must start disciple-making with the gospel because it is quite literally the starting point of our lives with God.

2. The gospel is the foundation of walking with God.

Not only is the gospel the starting point of life with God, it is also the foundation of the believer’s future walk with God. We never outgrow our need for the gospel. Every day we are sinners in need of God’s grace. Every day we are recipients of God’s grace in Christ. Every day God sees us, not in our sin, but in the perfect righteousness of the Son.

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Five Ways to Invest in Disciple-Making Relationships

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In my previous post, I contended that discipleship must take place in the context of relationships. But how do we create and invest in relationships with those whom we intend to disciple? Here are a few ideas:

1. Pray for them.

One of the most important things you can do in any disciple-making relationship is to pray for that person. It blesses the person as well as your relationship with them. As we take people before God in prayer, our hearts become invested in their spiritual well-being. We look for evidence of God’s work in their lives; we want to see it and be a part of it!

2. Pray with them.

Don’t just pray for the people you are discipling. Pray with them. As you do, you will be modeling what it looks like to pray. Remember, much more is caught than taught in disicipling relationships! Prayer will also unite your hearts as you spend time together in God’s presence.

3. Spend time together.

For any relationship to grow, you must spend time together. There will be times when you meet for “official” discipleship meetings, but don’t stop there. Invest in the relationship outside of set meeting times. Invite whoever you’re mentoring to join you in normal life activities: eating, running errands, playing with the kids, going to get ice cream, etc.

Recently, I needed to dig a hole for a new basketball goal, so I asked one of the guys in my discipleship group to come over one morning and help me dig the hole. After we finished, we sat in lawn chairs and admired our work as we talked about life. Another guy from my group came the next day and helped me mix concrete set the goal in place (it wasn’t easy, mind you, so we had to persevere together!). In each situation, I was able to spend quality time with these guys and strengthen our relationship.

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Paradox in Cost Counting

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“Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after Me cannot be my disciple…For which of you, wanting to build a tower, doesn’t first sit down and calculate the cost to see if he has enough to complete it?” -Luke 15:27-28

In the past, every time I came across one of Jesus’ statements like this, I trembled. Was I really bearing my own cross? Was I truly following Him? At the same time, I was afraid of the immensity of the call of giving up everything to follow Him. Is it really worth it?

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